About us
My name is Steve Ash, and two years ago my wife, Tracy, was diagnosed with dementia. While the diagnosis was heartbreaking, we were fortunate to have the financial resources to access the care, equipment, and support she needed.
During our journey, we realized that many families facing dementia and Alzheimer's are not as fortunate. Too many people struggle to afford essential care, home safety equipment, respite services, and other resources that can make an enormous difference in the quality of life for both patients and their caregivers.
That realization inspired us to create the Blue Bird Forget Me Not Foundation.
The name of our foundation holds a special place in our hearts. Tracy has always loved bluebirds, and to us they represent hope, comfort, and brighter days even during life's most difficult moments. Combined with the forget-me-not flower—a symbol of remembrance and enduring love—the name reflects our commitment to honoring those living with Alzheimer's and dementia while supporting the families who care for them.
Our mission is simple: to help families facing Alzheimer's and dementia receive the support they need, regardless of their financial circumstances. We believe no family should have to choose between providing the best possible care for a loved one and meeting their basic financial needs.
Through community support, fundraising, and compassionate outreach, we strive to bring hope, dignity, and practical assistance to those navigating one of life's most difficult journeys.
Together, we can help families remember that they are not alone.
About Alzheimer's and Dementia
Alzheimer's disease and dementia affect millions of individuals and families around the world. While these conditions primarily impact memory, they also affect thinking, behavior, communication, and the ability to carry out everyday tasks.
What is Dementia?
Dementia is not a single disease. It is a general term used to describe a decline in memory, reasoning, and other thinking skills that interferes with daily life. There are many different types of dementia, with Alzheimer's disease being the most common.
What is Alzheimer's Disease?
Alzheimer's disease is a progressive brain disorder that gradually damages memory and cognitive function. Over time, individuals may experience increasing difficulty recognizing loved ones, communicating, making decisions, and completing routine activities. Although there is currently no cure, treatments and support can help improve quality of life and manage symptoms.
Common Warning Signs
Memory loss that disrupts daily life
Difficulty planning or solving problems
Confusion with time or place
Trouble finding the right words when speaking
Misplacing items and being unable to retrace steps
Changes in mood, personality, or behavior
Withdrawing from work, hobbies, or social activities
Supporting Families
An Alzheimer's or dementia diagnosis affects the entire family—not just the individual living with the disease. Caregivers often face emotional, physical, and financial challenges while providing daily care and support.
At the Blue Bird Forget Me Not Foundation, we believe no family should face this journey alone. Our mission is to provide resources, financial assistance, education, and hope to those navigating the challenges of Alzheimer's and dementia.
Together, we can make a difference—one family at a time.
Resources
No one should have to navigate Alzheimer's or dementia alone. Whether you are living with the disease, caring for a loved one, or looking for guidance after a recent diagnosis, these resources can provide valuable information and support.
Educational Resources
Learn more about Alzheimer's disease, dementia, treatment options, and caregiving through trusted organizations:
Alzheimer's Association – www.alz.org
National Institute on Aging – www.nia.nih.gov
Alzheimer's Foundation of America – www.alzfdn.org
Family Caregiver Alliance – www.caregiver.org
AgeSmart Community Resources
Caregiver Support
Caring for someone with Alzheimer's or dementia can be emotionally and physically demanding. Consider:
Joining a local caregiver support group
Speaking with your healthcare provider about respite care
Connecting with community organizations for caregiver education and assistance
Safety & Home Care
Creating a safe home environment can help your loved one remain independent for as long as possible.
Medical alert systems
Medication organizers
Fall prevention equipment
Door and window safety devices
Memory aids, calendars, and reminder tools
Financial Assistance
Many families are surprised by the costs associated with Alzheimer's and dementia care. You may qualify for assistance through:
Medicare and Medicaid
Veterans benefits (for eligible veterans)
State and local aging agencies
Nonprofit organizations that provide financial assistance
Crisis & Emergency Support
If your loved one wanders, experiences a medical emergency, or you are concerned for their immediate safety, call 911right away.
We're Here to Help
The Blue Bird Forget Me Not Foundation is committed to helping families find the support they need. If you're unsure where to start, please contact us. We will do our best to connect you with trusted resources, answer your questions, and help you find the assistance available in your community.
Remember: Asking for help is a sign of strength. No family should face Alzheimer's or dementia alone.
Make a Difference Today
Every donation to the Blue Bird Forget Me Not Foundation helps bring hope and support to families facing the challenges of Alzheimer's disease and dementia.
When a loved one is diagnosed, families are often faced with unexpected expenses—from home safety modifications and medical equipment to respite care and everyday necessities. These costs can quickly become overwhelming.
Our foundation was created because we believe no family should have to face these challenges alone.
Where Your Donation Goes
At the Blue Bird Forget Me Not Foundation, our mission is simple: every dollar we raise is used to help families in need. We are committed to directing the funds we receive toward providing meaningful assistance to those living with Alzheimer's or dementia and the loved ones who care for them.
Your generosity may help provide:
Home safety equipment
Mobility and daily living aids
Caregiver support and respite services
Educational resources
Financial assistance for families facing hardship
Every contribution, no matter the size, helps ease the burden on a family navigating one of life's most difficult journeys.
Thank You
Your donation is more than a financial gift—it is a message to families that they are not alone. Together, we can provide comfort, dignity, and support when it is needed most.